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【田村地区刘某入室杀三人   邻居一家见义勇 】北京警方今日通报，6月12日6时许，海淀田村地区发生一起刑事案件，犯罪嫌疑人刘某（男，33岁，山东菏泽人）因报复入室持刀行凶，致三人死亡。见状，邻居吴某某与妻子、儿子和房东奋不顾身前往救助，最终合力将刘某控制。在此过程中，吴某某及其妻子和儿子均被刘某砍伤。目前，犯罪嫌疑人刘某已被海淀警方依法刑事拘留，案件正在进一步审查中。
北京警方表示，对三名死者表示同情和哀悼，对吴某某等群众见义勇为的行为表示崇高敬意和诚挚慰问，并将积极配合相关部门做好吴某某等群众的抚恤保障工作，最大限度地维护见义勇为人员的合法权益。 

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关于此事，且看网友如何评论：

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门牙精：又一个山东好汉被逼上梁山，可惜了一条“好汉”。

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Karen-T-：现在的北京啊，确实应该各回各家各找各妈了

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天空之TK：这邻居一家太英勇了！

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看新闻学知识：为什么天热，我的脾气怎么这么暴躁

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    天气变化不仅影响人的生理健康，对人的心理和情绪也有重要影响。好的气象条件可使人们情绪高涨、心情舒畅、生活质量和工作效率提高，而不好的气象条件会使人的情绪低落、心情烦闷、懒惰无力、精神萎靡，甚至会导致精神和行为异常。

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\"田村地区刘某入室杀三人

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    人体中的松果体在强烈的阳光照射下，分泌相应的激素较少，使甲状腺素、肾上腺素的浓度升高，阴雨恶劣天气时松果体分泌的激素则较多，甲状腺素、肾上腺素的浓度就相对降低。甲状腺素和肾上腺素有促进细胞代谢，增加耗氧量，刺激组织生长成熟和分化的功能。

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\"田村地区刘某入室杀三人

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    炎热的夏季，大约有10%的人会出现情绪和行为异常，特别是中老年人容易出现情感障碍。常见的表现为情绪不稳定，心情烦躁，思维紊乱，爱发脾气；或自己感觉头脑不清晰，内心燥热，无法静下心来思考问题，记忆力差。

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\"田村地区刘某入室杀三人

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    夏季情绪障碍的发生与气温高、多汗、睡眠不足和饮食差等有密切关系。因此，炎热的夏季，要尽可能增加睡眠时间，早上天气凉爽可以晚起一会儿，当气温超过32℃时，最好不要从事体育活动，特别是老年人，因为高温状态下身体代谢自动增强，无需再增加活动，以免造成体能消耗过多，有损身体新陈代谢。人们不要让情绪被天气牵着鼻子走，可以采用宣泄、转移注意力、听合适节奏的音乐等方式进行调节，必要时请心理医生帮忙。

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 慢镜头孔雀开屏 孔雀开屏为求偶，内向的你怎么谈恋爱

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关于慢镜头孔雀开屏，且看网友如何评论：

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开心最重要n_n：这么多眼睛，主要作用肯定是用来吓人的，密恐表示不好看

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想叫煎蛋：漂亮  为拍这个视频也是辛苦了，这就下单买只孔雀吃

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sallask：满脑子都在想孔雀控制尾羽的鸡肉是得多发达……以及我要是有这样的肌肉就好了……

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小米粥粥配饼饼：两…两只…公孔雀………对着开屏？？

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Cielyuan：我的重点在它一扭一扭的肚子上

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看新闻学知识：内向的人怎么谈恋爱

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　　内向的人往往喜欢独处，但是内向的人也往往很渴爱情。一般来说，内心的人要试着转变内心的社交焦虑，不要排斥外向特征，让自己慢慢变得外向一点。

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\"慢镜头孔雀开屏

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1、放下思想包袱：内向人思考很多，行动很少。内向人首先要做的就是放下思想包袱，不要觉得内向是性格缺陷，实际上有时候内向男人更会博得女孩的喜欢，有研究发现，略微露出一点羞涩的男生更容易让女生喜欢。

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\"慢镜头孔雀开屏

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2、合理安排时间：内向人人际交往时间有限，爱上一个人，会希望所有的时间和他或她呆在一起，外向人更喜欢和别人呆在一起。内向人谈恋爱要安排好时间，不要冷淡本来就很少的人际关系，它是一种极为宝贵的社会资源。

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3、让他理解你的性格：如果内向的人和外向的人恋爱或者结婚，外向的一方会感觉到生活的无聊、缺乏刺激。对于内向的人，谈恋爱首先要和另一半相互交流自己喜欢的和不喜欢的，在两人之间取得一个平衡点——既不会消耗掉内向的一方过多的精力，也不会让外向一方感到孤独和沮丧。

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\"慢镜头孔雀开屏

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4、避免误会和不满：两个内向的人，都会尽力避免不和谐的因素产生，将不满压抑在内心而不表露，时间久了就有可能积累出误会最后造成不满情绪的大爆发。所以相互交流又一次显现出了重要性

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5、怎样拒绝：内向的人，拒绝显得格外困难以至于我不得不在这里给出一些建议：

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①不要立刻做出决定，②不要面对面拒绝，③拒绝藕断丝连

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经常听到有人说自己是强迫症， 然而反复的行为就是强迫症吗？真正的强迫症有哪些？ 强迫症朋友自己觉得累吗，喜欢保留本该丢掉的东西，或过度怕脏、怕细菌。五分钟让你了解强迫症真相！ 

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\"如何改变强迫症呢\"

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关于强迫症，且看网友们怎么说：

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DreamoneOnly：强迫症就是因为自己和自己较劲，自己不放过自己，但是我觉得这样我比较踏实

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colin杰：强迫症核心是无止境的焦虑。你没法控制自己脑中的想法，那种无趣的想法是无止境播放。并没说的那么简单自己跟自己较劲。作为一个患过的人来说，那种经历可以说是一生难忘…

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B1gdogg：曾经重度强迫症，现在轻微。重度强迫症那段时间真的好累，一直在被大脑支配，有时候生活都不能自理。后来也想通了，与其被大脑支配，不如自己支配大脑。面对内心的恐惧，恐惧是虚无的，影响不了你什么。

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索玛花：我就是经常洗手，不洗手就感觉不干净。 别人拿我手机接个电话我都要用纸巾擦好几遍。 摆东西要摆到完美为止。这算强迫症吗？

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\"如何改变强迫症呢\"

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PS：如何丢掉强迫症：

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1、性格调整：强迫症患者要有意识地努力克服任性、急躁、好胜等性格，改变过于刻板、过分认真的做事方法。

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2、消除“病耻感”：很多强迫症患者把接受正规心理诊断和治疗当成是一种耻辱，严重影响了强迫症的治疗。只有消除“病耻感”，才能做到及时有效的治疗。

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\"如何改变强迫症呢\"

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3、调整生活状态：强迫症患者应学会自我放松，如积极参加各种文体活动，减轻了生活、学习上的压力，也使引发强迫症的恐惧和焦虑情绪也就会逐渐减轻。

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4、不做完美主义者：强迫症患者应承认和接受自己有犯错误的可能，对生活、对学习也不应太苛刻，追求极端完美只能适得其反。同时在看问题时不可太绝对，要学会相对比较，同时保持乐观的心态。

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  当天小王和两个小朋友正在街上玩耍，熊孩子熊孩子，这个年纪的小王很调皮，在街上骂了邻居。邻居听到之后，气炸了肺，非要教训小王。邻居就找到了小王的奶奶告状。小王也因此吓得跑没了影，小王奶奶在喇叭上喊他，也不敢回去。到了晚上，喊到八点多钟，才草丛里找到小王。

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\"9岁小孩骂邻居\"

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    刘大娘后来觉得孙子理亏，就撵着孙子给邻居赔礼道歉。可刚到邻居门口，就打了小王两巴掌。

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    按照刘大娘的说法，她本来是想带孙子负荆请罪的，可哪成想，邻居当着她的面，给了孙子两记耳光。事情是不是像刘大娘和小王说的这样呢？

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\"9岁小孩骂邻居\"

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记者来到了一墙之隔的邻居吴大婶家。

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    吴大婶说，刘大娘把孙子领到她家，二话不说，就要教训孙子，这无异于打她的脸，根本没有道歉的诚意。她当时火冒三丈，想要打小王，可被对象给拦了下来，根本没有碰到小王。到底有没有打小王，眼下两边各执一词，可老话说，“远亲不如近邻”，为了这件小事，两家闹得不愉快，值当的吗？

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\"9岁小孩骂邻居\"

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关于此事，网友如何评论呢：

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超级酷的理科生：他还是个孩子呢 给我往死里打

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宇宙大总攻：让你嘴贱！小小年纪不学好！该！

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允影梦：既然已经带孩子去道歉了，还打人家孩子就不合适了吧！

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亲清的清亲：9岁的孩子，认知范围并没有那么广，大人又何必和一个年幼无知的孩子较真？这样的两巴掌下去，有可能毁掉的是孩子的一生！有考虑过吗？

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人类导师：我想问问大家九岁的时候都在干嘛，温文尔雅落落大方？我知道熊孩子讨厌，但是真的要成人重重两耳光打在脸上吗，受不受得了不说，打了真的能改？

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医疗废物_-：自己如果觉得委屈为什么不理直气壮的回家，说白了还是知道是自己的错

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家长如何教育孩子懂礼貌的一些方法：

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1、做一个好榜样：如果父母自己不文明，而去要求孩子讲文明，孩子又会模仿大人的说话方式，所以好习惯从家长开始。

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2、让孩子喜欢打招呼：带宝宝外出，见到认识的人，教他自己说“叔叔好阿姨好”，除了对方赞美宝宝之外，爸爸妈妈也要及时附和，肯定自己宝宝的“有礼貌真乖”；积极的回应是对小孩子最好的鼓励和奖励。

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3、懂事孩子教育：在教育或者纠正孩子的不良行为的时候，千万注意不要在公共场合伤及孩子的自尊心或使孩子难堪。

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4、培养多倾听习惯：平时可以多提醒在别人说话的时候要注意多倾听，不能大声喧哗、也不能中间插话打断别人说话；平时和别人说话，要看着对方的眼睛，认真听，不可随意走开。让孩子懂得，这样做是对别人的尊重，只有尊重别人，别人才可能尊重你。

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5、做个热情好客的小主人：家里有客人来，可以利用这个机会训练孩子讲礼貌。例如，在客人进门的时候，教宝宝甜甜地问声好

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6、孩子有不文明行为时，父母需要及时进行批评，不能无视。

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   诏安一男子因欠债无力偿还，2次跳江自杀，第2次被漳州110民警所救，而男子第1次跳河自杀，竟是被一条水蛇“所救”。6月8日16时许，民警接到一男子报警称，其要跳九龙江自杀，让民警帮其将手机、钱包交给其父母，随后便将手机挂断。民警立即赶往江滨路段搜寻，但是该男子的手机始终无人接听，无法确定该男子的具体位置。

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\"男子跳江自杀遇江中水蛇\"

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  由于该男子报警时，很含糊地跟民警说其目前能看见漳州奥林匹克体育中心，让民警在他自杀后，帮其将手机、钱包交给其父母。于是，民警立即对奥林匹克体育中心路段附近进行搜寻。最后，民警在漳州九龙江大桥路段发现一名全身湿透的男子九龙江边的草丛里。

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\"男子跳江自杀遇江中水蛇\"

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  经民警确认，该名男子就是欲跳江轻生的报警人张某（诏安人，26岁）。张某因欠朋友钱无力偿还，一时想不开这才产生了跳江轻生的念头，当日16时许，张某第1次跳入九龙江后，发现江中有一条蛇，于是张某便游回了岸边。但后来，张某还是想不开，欲第二次跳江自杀，这时，民警刚好赶到。最后经民警耐心的劝说教育，张某慢慢的想开了，打消了轻生念头，表示将重新做人。

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\"男子跳江自杀遇江中水蛇\"

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用户5387888755：我有点没明白，会游泳也能跳江自杀嘛？

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多动漫周边：蛇:我去，散个步都能救一条人命

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怎么呜哇：他回到家后想起多年前救过的一条小蛇……

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君：跳的人可能叫许仙 蛇是去救他的

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囸仴拾伍囍：会游泳还去跳江自杀？又被水蛇吓到放弃自杀？就是个逗逼！

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近日，上海有一名男子因不满被公司辞退，喝了酒后，借酒劲将多辆共享单车直接扔到机动车道上，将三条机动车道全部堵死，大约300多辆车滞留，一度造成交通严重拥堵，他还阻止其他人搬走车辆。目前，该男子被行政拘留5日

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传说中滴临时工：这样的辞退就对了
-地豆：五天太少了 这种扰乱治安的人就应该关久一点
追梦的少年k2：这一天天的，共享单车到底惹了谁，天天看到类似的新闻！
發現號攝影-赵君实：破坏公物、阻扰交通、寻衅滋事，才拘留5日？真是菩萨心肠啊~~
郴州校园新鲜事：心情不好这么玩[拜拜]小伙真6，明摆着搞事情嘛[笑cry]关上几天心情就好
竺翰学：所以这样的人被辞退是有原因的
傻猫珠宝儿：公司该有多明智啊！

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打麻将起纠纷调解后变情侣 套路：想骗我去打麻将

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       近日，重庆九龙坡男子江某与女子杨某因打麻将发生纠纷，抓扯起来。民警将两人带回派出所劝解。调解过程中，民警发现两人均单身，于是在调解完后，索性当起红娘。没想到，两人互相产生好感，手挽手离开了派出所…网友：又想骗我们打麻将

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券君：从派出所出来 直接去民政局领证吧
飞机飞远了：单身24年终于明白了，没去打麻将…
爱吃鱼的鲸鱼呀：怪不得没对象，我都是手机上打欢乐麻将
扒兔抱着韩文清的大腿说：讲真。。我家开麻将馆的那些年。。。也成了好几对。
一生为臣：从不打麻将的我。现在谁需要打麻将的，叫我
小牛装修商学院：爱情来得太快就像龙卷风……随性
色渴死佛：呵呵，小编智障。这两人是想逃脱处罚，加上警察这么一说，就演戏呗。

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临近高考，一女孩害怕考砸，心理压力太大频频打电话给父母称不想考了念头，最近两天更是直接失联。心慌的父亲驾车赶往女儿学校所在城市，结果发生了车祸，所幸未受伤。后在交警的帮助下，这位父亲终于找到了女儿。

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特牛 ： 高考前我是国家一级保护动物，高考后是野生动物，查分数后是害虫。
风与你都跟我走 ： 孩子 回来吧 高考只是一次全国联考 不紧张 不害怕 还有家人为你担心
丁博xyf：孩子，你不用害怕啊。高考没什么大不了de
半夏薇凉：高考确实很残忍，不过你挺不过这一关的话，以后的人生会更残忍。
王安石：你在考场好好答题 我在场外为你点赞 高考加油
ALVA燃情：真搞不懂现在高考弄得就好像生离死别上战场打输了就要砍头似的，以前我们高考早上正常起来磨蹭洗漱吃早饭去高考就像平时上课一样 只不过是最后一课罢了……
都是叫我灿灿啊：紧张的都是学霸，我们这样的学渣，考前晚上聚众打牌
XL阿嗣：家长就不考虑一下孩子为什么有这么大压力么？应该反思一下，高考不过一件小事而已，自己心态放平点，给孩子一个轻松的环境

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     今早，重庆育才中学考点一护考老师向警方求助，其不小心将几十位考生准考证遗落宾馆，九龙坡警方民警卢磊磊庚即驾驶爱心送考摩托车，助其在十余分钟内取回准考证，原本需半个多小时车程

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\"老师忘带全班准考证

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这里是可可可 ： 别说老师了.她也紧张啊[心]祝福吧
 海南人回东北行吗：嗯估计到了考场外面心想“哟今儿人挺多啊这干嘛呢？？我瞅瞅”
摄影师安屿：这老师也是心大，为交警点赞
我叫甄悟能：这个老师应该不是故意的……大家不要攻击他了……等高考完他还要承受更多压力……说不定会被炒鱿鱼
南池姑娘：我这个考场居然有信号！还看见我前面人选择题跟我没有一个一样的，他肯定会落榜的。我要不要提醒他一下
东方头条：每年都有 忘带准考证 今年居然是老师
后背给你：今年不是学生忘带了 换老师了大家都猜错了
陆压-道君：我们这儿准考证也是交老师统一保管的，只是没想到防住了学生忘带，却没能防住老师呀

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分手的痛苦可能是大多数年轻人能体会的最痛苦的事情。除了一段亲密关系消失带来的伤感外，不能正视自己当初为何看上对方以致让走出来难上加难。其实，我们会被他人的某些优秀特质吸引很正常，因此爱上对方也很正常。所以直面这段关系，承认发生过的一切，才能更好更快地走出一段关系。

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sunny王一涵 ： 时间和新欢
假装在可可西里 ： 和四年前男友分了六年直到遇到现任才走出来
Me_酷先生 ： 你知道那种感觉吗。就是明明那个人还在，可以打电话，可以发信息，但你没有任何立场，他永远不再是你的了那种感觉真的特别难过。
第一眼的意中人 ： \"你每次把她的朋友圈翻到底 想办法知道他的所有过去 你不是嫉妒 你只是难过有种深情他从未给过你\"
陈秋欤：终于不用整天盯着手机，终于不用在洗澡的时候擦擦手回她消息，终于不用再聊天聊到凌晨，终于可以好好的睡觉，最重要的是我失去了一个可以让我撕心裂肺的重要的人。不过没关系我不介意孤独，真的比喜欢她舒服。放弃了才体会到“你走了正好，不然总担心你会走”我很好，你也保重。
猫的树和我的你：刚分手觉得天都塌了 做梦都哭早晨醒来枕头都是湿的 那阵子一下瘦了8斤 刚开始觉得这个坎怎么都迈不过去 后来时间一长情感渐渐麻木 也就过去了 没什么 全靠时间

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    彭凯平，清华大学心理学系主任，要告诉广大苦于找不到对象的大龄单身青年两个基于科学研究的好消息：一、在100万人里，至少有6000人可以成为你的理想伴侣；二、你和你的另一半之间，最多只隔一个人，这也是为什么很多夫妻是通过一个人介绍认识或者干脆自己认识的原因。

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 \"单身狗的福音

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    所以，彭凯平说：“千万不要在家等着，要走出去，那个人就在你的身边。”

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    大龄单身只是issue，不是problem

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    彭凯平告诉记者，大龄单身是社会经济发展到一定阶段所必然出现的现象，在美国也有很多电视剧描写大龄单身青年的焦虑，只不过在中国语境中，这种现象显得更加突出。

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    一方面，中国文化一直强调早婚早育，不孝有三无后为大，结婚是一种职责，从文化的角度，面对大龄单身现象，中国人一时适应不了这种落差；另一方面，中国处于社会转型期，在农业社会，结婚是很容易的，而在城市化进程中，年轻人的生存状态发生变化，飘浮的心灵面对外部世界，找到合适的伴侣可能有困难。

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 \"单身狗的福音

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    “大龄未必是坏事，但因为大龄单身带来了孤独感、失落感、压力、挫折感，这才是问题。”彭凯平说，“我们都是集体文化的产物，我们愿意和大多数人一样，这也是为什么中国年轻人面对大龄单身，容易感到矛盾和失调。”

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    在传统文化中，中国人容易把不符合常规、不合常情、不随常态的人，都看成是有问题。“其实我们想一想，常规常态常情也是经常变化的，很多人做同样的事情，就是所谓‘新常态’。不要把这样的问题看成problem（造成障碍的问题），这只是一个issue（讨论中的问题）”。

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    男性从婚姻中获得的幸福感和成就感高于女性

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    尽管大龄单身越来越普遍，但无论从生理、心理还是人类进化的角度，人是需要婚姻的。美国新泽西州罗格斯大学人类进化研究中心教授、以研究两性关系著名的海伦·费雪博士做过大量研究，证明绝大部分人都要进入婚姻状态，没有哪个朝代和文化是没有婚姻的，这是最有利于人类生存、繁衍、发展的社会机制。

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    显而易见，婚姻为繁衍后代提供保障，也为人类提供稳定的性满足；而且，婚姻对心灵也有很大的慰藉。彭凯平说：“你有人爱、有人等、有人照顾、有人支持，这种感觉非常重要。婚姻提供了亲情，人类需要忠诚、相濡以沫，这种感受比爱情要强烈和稳定。”

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 \"单身狗的福音

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    大量心理学研究发现，男性从婚姻中受益超过女性。比如，男性结婚后，平均寿命延长7年，女性只延长2年；另外，男性从婚姻中获得的幸福感和成就感高于女性，女性要生孩子，男性只要有妻子和家庭，就有一种自我的获得感、成就感和尊严感；善于交流和沟通的妻子也能为丈夫带来更多的社会关系，“夫人外交”就是一例实证；男性的生理特征决定其喜爱冒险，但结婚后他会变得更加稳定。

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    婚姻的“匹配”标准是多样的，特别重要的是心灵匹配

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    近年来，随着中国女性地位的提升，女性对婚姻已有独立选择的能力。然而，女性在大龄单身的问题上，显然感受到更大的压力和紧迫感，尤其是一些“白骨精”（白领、骨干、精英）女性。彭凯平强调，优秀女性不结婚，绝对不是因为嫁不出去，而是因为不愿意“下嫁”，这时候就要小心陷入心理陷阱。

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    “比如，幽默感的匹配，可以决定夫妻之间交流愉悦的程度。此外，还有三观、道德、政治……等的匹配。”彭凯平说，“可惜中国社会从来都强调物质的外在匹配，忽视了心灵。这是对女性的建议，也给中国男性一个提醒——不要觉得自己配不上优秀女性，关键是你能不能把自己变成配得上的男人。这个配得上就需要自己的努力和奋斗，自己的潜能开发和魅力的展示。”

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    彭凯平提醒，年轻人在恋爱过程中应该更多追求心理的感受，过多追求物质反而容易淡化情感需求。“追求物质和情感是两个不同系统，有时候有互相抑制作用。多一些情感、思想、文化的体验，能让我们产生更多的幸福感”。

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    美者生存，千万别觉得表白被拒或恋爱分手很可怕

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    彭凯平说：“我们经常讲‘适者生存’，其实人类进化还有一个很重要的选择机制，survival of the beautiful——‘美者生存’。魅力是人类能够活下来、健康长寿、多子多孙非常重要的秘诀。人这一辈子，很重要的一个技巧就是‘讨人喜欢’，魅力也是实力的一部分。可惜中国社会从来不教孩子如何培养魅力，全靠孩子的天赋、直觉、经验，或者道听途说。”

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    不知从何时起，有人将“不以结婚为目的的恋爱都是耍流氓”奉为真理。“这句话是对中国女性的侮辱，也是对中国男性的侮辱。都21世纪了，爱上一个人，试探、恋爱、不合适分手，非常正常的现象，一点问题都没有”。

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    彭凯平经常鼓励自己的学生拥抱生活、拥抱爱情，千万不要觉得表白被拒或恋爱分手很可怕。有一个心理学统计，分手对心理的伤害最多持续3个月，“失恋绝对不是一生的终结，年轻人要有开放的态度去面对失败”。

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大龄不是生理概念这一问题，看网友如何评论：

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超级无敌李尼玛：结个屁的婚！要不是父母逼亲人催，我才不这么早结婚，结婚后没一天是开心的！

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莫凡81192：[doge]这是在为单身狗群体发声啊！

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满满能量元气少女：上周末家里聚会，先说没找对象是不是工作接触不了什么人，我说有介绍的又说挑来挑去最后只能剩下，差不多的就谈谈。我当时心中真是有无数的草泥马奔腾，老娘不想谈恋爱不行啊！不能苟同到年龄就要结婚，婚姻不是人生的必选项

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周家军loveyousonghsiyun：25的我还单身，没谈过恋爱。都怪我哦！有喜欢的人配不上，一个在天，一个在地。喜欢4年，都没交集。最近她有男朋友了！看着扎心。我何不想让她做我的女朋友老婆呢！有什么用

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神台词：说的对，虽然我30了，我依然觉的自己是15岁的小孩

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 新闻调查记者：我就想知道，小编是不是还单身[允悲][允悲]

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绅度X：永远不要去打扰一个不想搭理你的人，何必自讨没趣。  

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部分男孩“成长女性化”引担忧

　　北京的4岁小男孩晨晨(化名)上幼儿园后的一些表现，让妈妈周女士有点“忧心”。她告诉记者，孩子所在的公办幼儿园共九个班，教课、保育老师全是女性，一位男教师也没有，课程内容也偏“女性化”。

\"男孩成长女性化引担忧

　　“幼儿园每周一有一节舞蹈课，班上所有学生都要参加。我看着晨晨穿着那双粉色舞蹈鞋、白色紧身裤，觉得特别别扭。”周女士说，“晨晨回家展现在学校学的一些舞蹈，动作也都是‘女性化’的：踏着小碎步、翘着兰花指，活脱脱一个女孩的模样……为什么不教些适合男孩的舞蹈?”

　　记者调查了解到，由于女教师居多，“女性行为范本”在幼儿园、小学非常普遍。在一些班级，老师往往安排一个文静的女生，坐在有个性的男孩旁边“当榜样”;一旦男生调皮捣蛋，就将被老师责罚。

　　“我们曾做过调查，在中小学校班级里大多都是女孩担任班干部，女生相比男生更受老师的偏爱。”中国教育科学研究院研究员储朝晖说。

男性角色缺失易导致“男孩危机”

　　“男老师数量太少，想招也招不到。”长沙一位民办幼儿园园长介绍说，学校也希望多补充一些男老师，可事实上幼教、师范专业的男生本就极为有限，而学校每年招考教师，参与考试的男教师寥寥无几，现有男女老师比例失衡很难被打破。

　　“大学时我们幼教师范班，班上40多人里只有3名男生，但毕业后他们都转专业自谋出路了。”长沙幼教老师黄爱云说：“在很多人眼中，当幼师、教孩子就是女人的事情……”

　　蒋瑛瑾认为，女教师更喜欢文静的学生，女孩在幼儿园的优势被放大。而老师对顽皮的男孩表现出排斥，也很可能在不自觉中忽视了男孩在运动、视觉和空间方面的能力。

　　“在幼儿、小学年龄段，女孩本身就比男孩在身体发育和心智上要领先一些，而偏活泼、调皮吵闹的男孩，天性则容易被压抑。这会导致男孩自信心不足，表现出怯懦、柔弱的一面，不利于男孩的成长。”蒋瑛瑾说。

 “男孩危机”亟待教育“补位”

　　男生在学业、体制、心理及社会适应能力等方面都落后于女生的现象，有专家将之称为“男孩危机”。储朝晖认为，基础教育中男生过早被边缘化，容易让孩子自尊、自信心受损，不利于实现教育公平和男生的个性发展。

　　储朝晖认为，教育部门应积极探索，鼓励教师在教学、考试中多增加一些可发挥男孩想象力和创造力的内容，全面、客观评价男孩的表现和发展。而学校课程设置也要更注重“性别差异”。

　　周淑群表示，家庭里父亲的角色“补位”也极为重要，“对男孩子来说，人生中最重要的角色、行为范本就是父亲，父亲对男孩的影响甚至远远超过老师。”周淑群建议，家庭教育可以通过设立“家风家规”，引导男孩培养独立、坚强、阳刚的性格。


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  近日，内蒙古赤峰市公安机关破获一起利用校园贷款平台对大学生实施诈骗的案件，涉案金额达900余万元。

\"大学生被骗九百万办案人员\"

  学生能以八百块钱的低价购买苹果手机，这谁都觉得不可能发生的事，但是已经对社会有一定认知的大学生竟然上当了，而他们上当无非是倒在贪小便宜吃大亏上面，因此本案折射的是某些大学生世界观、人生观、价值观的扭曲。

　　一般情况下，贪小便宜的人都有着较强烈的占有欲望，一但占有欲在得到一次小便宜的时候便会产生相应的满足感。与人相处，总想占别人的便宜，另外，贪小便宜的人把自己过多的精力放在了琐碎的事情上，长期下去会使自己的心胸变得狭窄，难以成为有作为的人才。如何避免贪小便宜的心理，是一个值得我们深思的问题。

\"大学生被骗九百万手机截屏\"

  本起案例，查处违法向大学生发放高利贷违法行为很容易，但纠正贪小便宜心理难，此心理不戒，还有更多的900万事件发生。在生活中面临诱惑时一定不能头脑发热和冲动，多分析、多请教老司机，要记得“天上不会掉馅饼”、“买的不如卖的精” 这些老话。

\"大学生被骗九百万涉事APP\"

  对家长来说，在孩子们的成长过程中，我们自身给孩子树立了怎样的榜样？我们有没有尽到应尽的职责，在给予他们必要的关爱的同时，有没有教会他们做一个人格健全的人，做有担当的公民？这些都值得全社会深思。


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　　自4月24日起，鸟巢涌入来自多地成群结队的“特殊游客”，这个以中老年为主的人群，大多聚集一团不时翻看手机。虽然他们只称自己是游客。但是他们却是一个诈骗团伙的受害者。     

    4月22日起，北京警方就已通过“平安北京”官方微博辟谣此活动。此后几日，公安部门通过各种媒体先后发布相关辟谣信息，提醒大家不要上当。但一些受害者依然对这一骗局“深信不疑”。

小编将从心理角度为您揭露下为什么老人易被骗

\"老人被骗鸟巢领钱\"

一、内心匮乏感。
60岁以上老年人，很多人童年都经历过饥饿，基本生存都不能得到保障，成长的环境对人的影响造成：任何东西都想抓住，好像今天放过了明天就又会挨饿。
老人们大抵都逃不出“爱贪便宜”四个字。“投资高回报”之类的宣传，一击便中。

二、深受反智教育

    容易被忽悠买保健品，很大程度是由于多年反智教育，整个社会从最有权威和力量的部分开始，不承认事实道理，不鼓励思辩，迷信“权威”，为尊者讳，怀疑国家怀疑官媒（上电视、报纸等于国家批准）就被认为是危险的、错误的。卖各种保健品的，正是笼络了这些人，“电视里都说了/报纸上都写了，怎么还能有假！”

三、亲情缺失

　　老人其实就像小孩，希望自己被人关注，需求能够有人满足，如果子女不做的话，传销组织可能会代替你做。即便平时回家的次数少，但经常跟家里人打打电话、跟老人聊聊天，了解他们的需求，让他们感受到“家”和“爱”的感觉，这样老人即便遇到什么事情，也会和你商量，这样你可以在他们被骗之前进行阻止。

\"老人希望自己被人关注\"


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