{"countAll":0,"orderType":null,"readLevel":"0","lyTopicReq":{"id":"1835","isDel":0,"createAt":0,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":null,"title":null,"content":null,"barId":"1835","topicTypeId":null,"topicThemeId":"1015","readLevel":0,"files":null,"clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":0,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":0,"publishTime":0,"isCream":null,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":0,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":0,"metaSearch":null,"rn":null},"lyBarModerators":{"list":[],"list4Map":null,"pageBegin":0,"pageSize":8,"pageNumber":0,"totalPage":0,"totalRow":0},"metaSearch":{"description":"","keywords":"精神科","title":"精神科","channels":null},"data":{"list":[{"id":"5121","isDel":0,"createAt":1497613426895,"createBy":"d618c1d4097a11e7a61c00163e04584d","createName":"乐哈哈哈","updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":"d618c1d4097a11e7a61c00163e04584d","title":"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响","content":"<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">【<strong class=\"bold\">女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿</strong>】&nbsp;</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;6月13日凌晨4点，张女士报警，称小美被人挟持，怀疑遭性侵。张女士称，最近发现女儿和一个男生走得挺近，怀疑女儿早恋，但小美称男生姓苏，是同学，两人只是普通朋友。张女士觉得不对，和其他同学要到苏同学的手机号。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;民警通过警务平台查询，通过苏同学的父亲找到苏同学和小美。原来，放学后，小美与一帮同学去酒吧喝酒，小美喝醉了就不肯回家，由一名女同学陪着在一家网吧过夜。并没有受到挟持或者侵犯。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;在派出所，小美道出父亲脾气很暴躁，对她有一点不满意就动手，心情不好时还拿她发泄。前不久小美放学回家，父亲打麻将输了钱，就无缘无故揍了她一顿。小美把袖子撸起来，膀子上青一块紫一块，还有淤血。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;民警喊来小美的父母，父亲承认打过小美，因为小美比较叛逆，他觉得&ldquo;棍棒底下出孝子&rdquo;，就一次次对小美进行体罚。看到小美在被打后依然我行我素，母亲也没有说话。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;警方向小美父母开具家暴告诫书。在保证不再殴打小美后，民警让他们将小美带回家。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong>关于此事且看网友如何评论：</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong>不良校草：</strong>心是好的，也别给警察添乱啊，没脑子</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong>颜宴：</strong>妈妈紧张过度报假警可以理解，可是这么心疼的女儿为什么能忽视父亲对女儿的家暴？</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong>笙痞：</strong>教养和文化是两回事，有的人很有文化，但是很没教养，有的人没有什么太高的学历和学识，但仍然很有教养，很有分寸。给孩子最好的教养，从父母开始，父母是孩子的镜子，孩子是父母的影子。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong>小熊猫十五岁：</strong>如果父亲不家暴，孩子就会按时回家，家人也就不会报假警。所以家长在拥有绝对权威的时候应谨慎行驶自身的影响</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">医学小知识：家暴对孩子的心理影响</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">家庭暴力对孩子的心理影响可以说是无法估量的,根据媒体报道，大多有暴力倾向的孩子都是在家暴中成长起来的。事实证明，如果一个孩子经常挨打挨骂，那么他有可能会出现以下一些不良的心态和心理偏差。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497613880450.jpg\" alt=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" width=\"400\" height=\"304\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">自卑：</strong>有的家长打了孩子后，还硬要孩子&ldquo;认错&rdquo;，以此表明孩子是接受教育了。事实上，这样做只能促使孩子的排他倾向加剧。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">无助：</strong>有的家长打过孩子后，又觉得心痛后悔，甚至抱着孩子痛哭，但经常挨打的孩子，会感到孤独无援。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497614319921.jpg\" alt=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" width=\"400\" height=\"283\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">孤独：</strong>经常挨打的孩子，会怀疑自己的能力，自感&ldquo;低人一等&rdquo;，不愿与家长和老师交流，不愿和小朋友一起玩，性格上也较孤僻。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">撒谎：</strong>有的家长一旦发现孩子做错事就打，孩子为了避免皮肉之苦，能瞒则瞒，能骗就骗，因为对孩子来说，骗过了一次，就可以减少一次&ldquo;灾难&rdquo;。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497613568195.jpg\" alt=\"女儿怕父亲家暴夜不归宿  教育不等于家暴，看家暴对孩子的心理影响\" width=\"400\" height=\"243\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">懦弱：</strong>如果孩子经常挨打，时间一久，孩子一看到家长，就会感到害怕，不敢接近，不管父母的话是对是错，他都只会乖乖服从。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong 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src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497356764683.jpg\" alt=\"汉中一高二学生坠楼身亡 现在学生怎么了，到底哪里岀了问题，如何预防青少年自杀\" width=\"400\" height=\"265\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">6</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">月</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">12</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">日</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">21</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">时</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">12</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">分，万某经抢救无效死亡。目前，事故调查和善后工作正在紧张进行之中。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">关于此事，且看相关网友如何评论：</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">用户</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">0okgsvho3i</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">：现在学生怎么了，那里岀问题了！痛心</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">real_fifi</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">：我也是高中党，和他一样也想过自杀，不止一次了</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">一粒柠檬籽啊：那么好的学校</span> <span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">那么好的老师</span> <span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">那么好的年纪</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">射手座的小仙女儿</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">sxj</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">：我校一高三</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">A</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">班的男生从班级窗户纵身跳下，</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">5</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">楼。把班里同学班主任年级主任都吓死了，结果他根本没事，因为他从五楼跳下的过程中，先是掉在了粗壮的树干上，又掉到了楼下那家卖饭人的房顶上，然后他独自站立从房顶上下去了。后来他自己说跳的那一瞬间就后悔了&hellip;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">看新闻学知识：青少年自杀心理分析，家长必读</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">第一、挫折和失败。高考落榜升学无望、考试失利等。家庭父母期望值较高，一旦遇挫，便感觉失却了存在的价值。加之受挫后父母不理解，外人讥嘲等，自尊心受到创伤后，往往走上绝路。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">第二，家庭关系不睦。家中父母管教过严，又由于青少年逆反心理较强，这些孩子自小感受到</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">世态炎凉</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">，无论在性格、气质上，都感到自卑、压抑。自幼感受不到父母的亲情，加之受挫，自杀的可能性极大。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">第三，失恋和失身。一些青少年对爱情缺乏深度了解，失去恋人后极易产生自卑心理；加上别人的另眼相待，也会使他们走上绝路。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">第四、严重抑郁症患者，自杀率约为</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">10%-15%</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">，因此，在青少年中如发现抑郁症倾向，及时疏导，可减少或预防自杀行为。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">第五、从众心理。一些平日称兄道弟，讲</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">江湖义气</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">的青少年团伙，盲目从众自杀。</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; background: white;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\"><img title=\"汉中一高二学生坠楼身亡 现在学生怎么了，到底哪里岀了问题，如何预防青少年自杀\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497356219413.jpg\" alt=\"汉中一高二学生坠楼身亡 现在学生怎么了，到底哪里岀了问题，如何预防青少年自杀\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" /> </span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\">　　<span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; background: white;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;自杀完全可以预防，但需要家庭、社会和各人各方面的努力。从家庭方面来看，家庭的压力可导致青少年发生情绪危机，如父母离异等。国外研究表明约有</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;\">50%</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">的青少年自杀与家庭破裂、家庭功能缺陷有关。从社会方面来说，社会各方应成立心理咨询小组，帮助有自杀意念的人解除心理矛盾，还应组织人力对自杀行为进行预测，从而加以防范。从个体方面来讲，青少年自杀多与个体的性格有关。性格严重内向或抑郁者，承受挫折的能力不强等。因此防止青少年自杀，需要从上述三方面建立起良好的自我防御机制。</span></span></p>\n<p>&nbsp;</p>","barId":"1647","topicTypeId":"1","topicThemeId":"1015","readLevel":0,"files":"","clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":2364,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":1,"publishTime":1497355864883,"isCream":0,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":1,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":1497355864883,"metaSearch":null,"rn":0,"barTitle":null,"checkcode":null,"forumUser":{"id":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","isDel":0,"createAt":1484984778320,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"username":"小海螺","password":"yiren2921","level":0,"nickName":"小海螺78","realName":null,"signName":"开心每一天","head":"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/1484985295689.jpg","phone":null,"mobile":null,"wechat":null,"qq":null,"email":"2276635444@qq.com","address":null,"identityType":6,"userType":2,"isPhoneBind":0,"status":0,"accountSource":0,"isStrangerMsg":0,"departmentId":null,"departmentName":null,"sex":1,"provinceId":"110000","cityId":"110108","userLevel":0,"modifyNameCount":1},"lyTopicReply":null,"createAtStr":null,"lyBar":null,"lyTopic":null},{"id":"5007","isDel":0,"createAt":1497192377586,"createBy":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","createName":"小海螺","updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","title":"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？","content":"<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">河南郑州一武馆，一名教练将4岁孩子夹着脖子拖走，放到凳子上后一巴掌将他扇下凳子，孩子脸被打红肿。馆长上前劝阻，也被攻击。武馆负责人称：打人教练刚来两三天，因家庭矛盾心情不好，已被处12日拘留。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">1.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">关注孩子的情绪，并及时给予安抚与保护</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">孩子的世界其实很单纯，但可能会被那个孩子吓了一跳，更可能被对方家长突然来袭的粗暴式介入所吓到。这时，安抚并保护自己的孩子不受到言语的攻击，是最重要的。因为孩子之间这点琐事对他们或许根本不重要，如果没有家长的介入，也许他们下一秒便忘得一干二净了。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497193172320.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"301\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">2.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">与对方家长沟通，尝试让孩子自己解决问题。</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">可以尝试和对方家长协商，双方家长保持平静，让孩子之间好好沟通，看看孩子能不能自己解决矛盾。如果不能，家长再给出一点建议，以和为贵，不给孩子造成一种恐怖的、严肃的气氛。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497192423951.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">3.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">事后问问孩子的感受</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">不管怎样，晚上吃饭时，或睡前，可以再问问孩子，白天所发生的事，他是怎么理解的，如果孩子三言两语略过，说明他可能根本不在意这件事，也就是说，这件事对他没有造成任何心理影响。但如果孩子吞吞吐吐，眼里藏着泪花，那真的需要和孩子好好聊一下，解开他的心结。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497193163750.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">4.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">遇到熊家长鼻祖，走为上策</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">如果你的微笑和努力沟通根本无法让对方家长停止不文明的谩骂行为，那你一定是遇上熊家长鼻祖了。这时，走为上策，不要再在对方身上浪费一分钟时间。如果遇到一些情绪失控甚至有过份行为的家长，可报警。为了下一代，我们更应该从自我做起，拒绝暴力，学会沟通，注重文明。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">5.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">孩子回打了，不要马上指责他，讲道理</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">当孩子在被打之后，如果他狠狠地回打了对方的孩子。有的家长可能碍于面子，马上严肃地指责自己的孩子：「你这孩子，怎么可以打人。」其实这对于孩子的内心来说，会觉得很委屈，很受伤。因为在他小小的世界里，明明是别人先打了我，为什么我的妈妈不帮我，反而还要骂我。孩子回打后，家长不必过于紧张，其实这恰恰是一个&ldquo;言传身教&rdquo;的好机会。在孩子回打之后，作为双方家长，首先应互相道歉，然后表示谅解与宽容。孩子通过观察家长的行为就可以明白：拳头不是解决矛盾的唯一方式。这样，在以后遇到同样的情景时，孩子也会以家长的行为为榜样，效仿大人&ldquo;君子动口不动手&rdquo;的方式来解决矛盾。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">03</strong><strong class=\"bold\">、大人要教会孩子自我保护</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">一位家长对孩子被打的态度则是非常坚决：打回去，被欺负要有反击。因为他认为：\"大人对孩子最好的保护，就是教会孩子自我保护\"。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">关于此事，看网友如何评论：</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">扎个马尾装清：心情不好就可以打孩子了？那我心情不好可以打你老婆吗？</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">北海鱼虾：心情不好不会跳楼？打孩子算个什么事</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">告别吃土o3o：将情绪发泄在孩子身上？脑子锈逗了？应该开除</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">月-野-菟：拘留12日，惩罚太轻，这属于虐待！小孩子心理阴影可能伴随着一辈子</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">哩个啷_9412：就拘留12天？哎呦我去，不是我说脏话，让他去死吧</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">龙牧紫水：这种人不人肉曝光难道留着以后残害更多的孩子？仗着自己肌肉发达，心情不好连不是自己的孩子都能下得去手，自己的孩子可想而知。这样的人不需要同情，也不需要留情</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">DiciottoAnni：这他妈要我儿子 我打的你下辈子在床上过</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: 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妈妈抓孩子手打回去","content":"<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;<img title=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497176780417.jpg\" alt=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" width=\"500\" height=\"312\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">杭州市民姚先生反映，</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">3</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">岁儿子被同学的妈妈欺负了，拉着她儿子的手向孩子头上、脸上打，喊着&ldquo;要打回去&rdquo;，三天了一直等不到对方的道歉。姚先生说，孩子间打闹很正常，为什么要当众去打一个</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">3</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">岁的小孩？对此，培训班老师说，这位妈妈会突然爆发，可能是因为看到孩子的头被姚先生的儿子踢了两脚，而这也不是他们第一次打闹，此前这个妈妈就多次提到，希望班上其他小朋友乖一点</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　<span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp; </span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">到昨晚事情已过去三天，之所以给我们打电话，姚先生说是一直等不到对方的道歉。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　当时到底发生了什么，我们看到了姚先生提供的监控录像。一段是在下课后，一群小朋友从教室里陆续走出来，一个穿黑白条纹上衣的女士拦在一个小朋友面前，小朋友看前面有人，没有抬头，想从旁边绕过去，黑白条纹上衣的女士右跨一步，又拦在小朋友的前面。姚先生说，这位女士就是孩子同学的妈妈，拦的小朋友就是他儿子。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　第二段发生在</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">1</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">分钟后的隔壁教室，当时姚先生的儿子坐在老师的怀里等妈妈，他的小同学站在老师旁边玩玩具，同学的妈妈掐着腰站在三个人面前，好像在说着什么。突然，她拿起儿子的手，朝姚先生的儿子头上打了两下。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　这个举动让在场老师错愕，儿子的同学也愣了一下，接着好像什么事都没发生一样，继续玩桌上的玩具。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　这位妈妈为什么会突然爆发，当时怀抱姚先生儿子的邢老师说，可能是因为刚刚上课时，她在窗外看到她儿子的头被姚先生的儿子踢了两脚。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　姚先生的儿子</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">38</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">个月，还没上幼儿园，他的小同学</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">40</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">个月，幼儿园小班。邢老师说，姚先生的儿子很&ldquo;热情&rdquo;，好动，有点淘气，另外一个小朋友正好相反，可能有点内向，不太喜欢和其他小朋友玩。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　&ldquo;这也不是他们第一次打闹了，&rdquo;邢老师说，两个人一起上课两个月，看到好几次好动的小朋友上去&ldquo;拍&rdquo;内向的小朋友，小朋友之间的打打闹闹很正常，力气也不会大到哪去，比较内向小朋友也没有哭闹，老师也没有太在意。&ldquo;可能这一次用脚了，而且踢的是头，这是爆发点，妈妈忍不住了。&rdquo;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　听邢老师说，这个妈妈几次聊天的时候都提到，希望班上其他的小朋友乖一点。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　视频上看，这个妈妈是拿着儿子的手打姚先生的儿子，邢老师说，这可能她教育孩子的一种方式，希望儿子不要太老实，被欺负的时候要还手。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　&ldquo;现在家长都很宝贝小孩，从家长的角度，她这样做我也能理解的，也是在保护小孩，只是处理的方式欠妥。小孩子之间打打闹闹，应该联系家长解决，比如可以跟对方家长说，你儿子过于活跃了，会打其他小朋友，回家能不能引导他一下，打人是不对的。&rdquo;邢老师从事幼儿教育</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">10</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">多年了，她说，觉得孩子吃亏，让孩子打回去的教育方式，千万要不得，这会对孩子行为习惯的养成产生负面影响。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　昨天我们也联系到了这位妈妈，对当时的突然举动她不愿意多谈，只说很抱歉，当时做出了鲁莽举动，都是为了孩子。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;<img title=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497176721119.jpg\" alt=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" width=\"400\" height=\"273\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">心理专家对内向男孩家长的建议：</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　每个孩子都有不同于其他孩子的个性</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">你的孩子有点内向</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">并无大碍</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">当然</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">如果我们能有意识地克服一些害羞情感</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">培养他落落大方的性格</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">则更好。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　有可能父母气质类型影响到孩子</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">所以父母不管性格是内向还是外向</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">都应用言行向孩子表达自己的关爱</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">比如每天晚上临睡前花点时间陪孩子进房</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">抱抱他</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">亲亲他</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">告诉他你们多么疼他</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">不要忽视这一重要步骤</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">对于他来说</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">不管这一天是多么糟糕</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">你们都可以用这种方式消除他心里的不悦。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　父母适当的赞美是孩子心灵里的阳光</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">一旦发现孩子的闪光点</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">就不失时机地送给他赞美之词</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">孩子的自信心自然会增长。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\"><img title=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497177039209.jpg\" alt=\"内向男孩被同学欺负 妈妈抓孩子手打回去\" width=\"400\" height=\"295\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　在仪表、打扮方面</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">能否做点文章</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">?</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">在社会交往中</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">穿着整洁光鲜的孩子乐于与人交往</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">也乐于被同伴接受</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">他的自我感觉会更好</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">有可能使其主动性加强。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　让孩子主动帮助别人</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">因为热心助人的孩子比较容易获得伙伴的喜爱</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">这种情绪也会感染他自身。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　让孩子在游戏中学会与伙伴合作</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">鼓励他分享游戏玩具</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">也鼓励比较大方的孩子主动带他去玩。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　兴趣班可以上</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">但不宜多</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">,</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">上个他最感兴趣的就可以了。</span></p>\n<p>&nbsp;</p>","barId":"1647","topicTypeId":"1","topicThemeId":"1015","readLevel":0,"files":"","clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":1845,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":1,"publishTime":1497176093635,"isCream":0,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":1,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":1497176093635,"metaSearch":null,"rn":0,"barTitle":null,"checkcode":null,"forumUser":{"id":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","isDel":0,"createAt":1484984778320,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"username":"小海螺","password":"yiren2921","level":0,"nickName":"小海螺78","realName":null,"signName":"开心每一天","head":"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/1484985295689.jpg","phone":null,"mobile":null,"wechat":null,"qq":null,"email":"2276635444@qq.com","address":null,"identityType":6,"userType":2,"isPhoneBind":0,"status":0,"accountSource":0,"isStrangerMsg":0,"departmentId":null,"departmentName":null,"sex":1,"provinceId":"110000","cityId":"110108","userLevel":0,"modifyNameCount":1},"lyTopicReply":null,"createAtStr":null,"lyBar":null,"lyTopic":null},{"id":"4965","isDel":0,"createAt":1496980148091,"createBy":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","createName":"小海螺","updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","title":"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪","content":"<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">送给情绪低点的你，让你学会如何控制自己的情绪，使自己在心情不好的时候，不要把最差的脾气和最糟糕的一面都给了最亲近的人。那么如何<span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">如何控制自己的情绪</span>，使自己不断成长，不断升华呢？</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">一、注意转移，避免刺激　</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">当自己苦闷、烦恼时，可以有意识地听听音乐、看看电视、翻翻画册、读读小说等，这就可把消极情绪转移到积极情绪上，淡化乃至忘却烦闷。再如，遇到难解的事，先不要想它，等事过境迁，能心平气和地解决难题，反而能收到较满意的成效。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\"><img title=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1496980438088.jpg\" alt=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" width=\"400\" height=\"264\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">二、理智控制，自我降温　</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">凡是有理智的人能及时意识到自己情绪的变化，当怒起心头时，马上意识到不对，能迅速冷静下来，主动控制自己的情绪，用理智减轻自己的怒气，使情绪保持稳定</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">三、宽宏大度，克己让人　</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">有气度的人，胸襟开阔，具有团队协作精神；而气度小的人，斤斤计较，常常把自己被逼到孤家寡人的地步。生活将会是各种各样的，喜乐悲忧都会有。所以，日常注重涵养，用旷达乐观、幽默大度的态度去应付，经得起挫折，能克己不狭隘。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\"><img title=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1496980364479.jpg\" alt=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" width=\"400\" height=\"266\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">四、目标升华</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">怒气是一种强大的心理能量，用之不当，伤人害己，使之升华，会变为成就事业的强大动力。培养远大的目标，改变计较得失的习惯，学会从大局、从长远去考虑一切，一个人只有确立了远大的人生理想，才不会被微不足道的小事绊住，妨碍对理想事业的追求。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">五、评价推迟法</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">别人的一个眼神，别人的一句讥讽，甚至可能是对别人的一个误解。可是当事情过一个小时、一个星期之后再评论，你或许会对当时的发怒莞尔一笑。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\"><img title=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1496981042134.jpg\" alt=\"送给情绪低点的你：如何控制自己的情绪\" width=\"400\" height=\"264\" /></span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">六、合理发泄情绪</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">合理发泄情绪是指在适当的场合，用适当的方式，来排解心中的不良情绪，防止不良情绪对人体的危害。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">1</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、哭</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">--</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">适当的哭一场：哭是自我心理保护的一种措施，它可以释放不良情绪产生的能量，调节机体的平衡。许多人哭一场过后，痛苦、悲伤的心情就会减少许多。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">2</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、痛快地喊一回：当受到不良情绪困扰时，不防痛怜惜地喊一回，将内心的积郁发泄出来，也是一种方法。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">3</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、向亲朋好友倾诉衷肠：把不愉快的事情隐藏在心中，会增加心理负担。找人倾诉烦恼、诉说衷肠，不仅可以使自己的心情感到舒畅，而且还能得到别人的安慰、开导以及解决问题的方法。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">4</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、剧烈的运动：当情绪低落时，往往不爱动，越不动注意力就越不易转移，形成恶性循环。因此可以通过跑步、打球等体育活动改变不良情绪。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style=\"font-size: 19px; line-height: 200%; font-family: 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style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　<strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">　何谓</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&ldquo;</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">电脑躁狂症</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&rdquo;?</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　在大都市里，白领一族正悄然遭受一种叫</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">电脑躁狂症</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">的折磨，不少白领人士的病情还十分严重。心理专家认为，这是现代人过分依赖高科技产品的负作用之一。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　对电脑莫名其妙地大动肝火，破口大骂，进而</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">拳打脚踢</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">，把鼠标和键盘乱砸乱扔。部分人还会不分青红皂白地把气发泄到同事和客人身上，常常让人家感到自己</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">发神经</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">。而少部分人则表示当电脑出现问题时，会突然感到口干舌燥，精神紧张恐慌，本该轻易解决的小问题却不知所措，突然间不明白该怎样下手。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　<strong>　</strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&ldquo;</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">电脑躁狂症</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&rdquo;</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">的成因分析</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　英国一家调查公司近日对</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">1250</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">名上班族进行了调查，结果表明，电脑躁狂症已经在英国蔓延起来。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">80%</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">的被访者表示，曾经见过同事对电脑大动肝火，破口大骂，进而</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">拳打脚踢</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">，甚至把鼠标或键盘抛出门外或窗外</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">!</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">被访者承认电脑出现问题的时候，他们会感到口干舌燥，精神紧张。年轻的上班族普遍有对电脑</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">诉诸武力</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">的倾向，</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">25</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">岁以下的被访者中，约有</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">15%</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">表示，曾经因电脑坏掉而产生向同事发泄、或者破坏公司设备的冲动。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　另一项类似的调查发现，一半以上的被访者会因为电脑发生故障而埋怨公司电脑部的同事，责怪老板的也有</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">10%</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">。专家指出，电脑躁狂症的出现，正好提醒现代人必须思考人与电脑等高科技产品的关系，正视科技带来的负面效果，否则便会陷入另一种身份危机：</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">到底是我控制电脑，还是电脑控制我</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">?&rdquo;</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　<strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">　如何解决</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&ldquo;</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">电脑躁狂症</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">&rdquo;</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　第一，要正视并解决电脑的技术问题，不要失去了对电脑的主宰能力，反而被电脑所控制。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　第二，要解决自己本身精神紧张的问题，尽量放松自己的情绪，用愉快、积极的态度迎接自己的工作和办公环境的变化，只有这样，才能解决</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&ldquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">电脑狂躁症</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">&rdquo;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">给自己带来的负面情绪。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　第三，适当降低对电脑的依赖性，减少使用电脑的时间，做好电脑出故障的预防准备和替代手段，把可能的损失或麻烦降到最低，准备充分了，心理就会平静和坦然。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\";line-height: 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style=\"margin-top:5px;margin-right:0;margin-bottom:5px;margin-left: 0;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;</span>人到老年，精力逐渐衰竭，体力不支。这种感觉带来的心理感受是<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">“</span>我已经老了<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">”</span>，在家庭中已从<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">“</span>当家做主<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">”</span>的地位上跌下来，开始变成累赘，并会由此生出许多<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">“</span>猜想<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">”</span>，如子女是否嫌弃他了，人们讨厌他了等等，往往会在疑心重重中愈陷愈深。此外，有的老年人在判断问题时常常是以<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">“</span>经验<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\">”</span>为基础的，带有许多个人主观因素。判断往往有失误。但是，越是这样的判断对于他就越有诱惑力。<span style=\"font-family: Arial, sans-serif\"> &nbsp;</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span style=\";line-height:200%\">&nbsp;</span></p><p><br/></p>","barId":"1647","topicTypeId":"1","topicThemeId":"1015","readLevel":0,"files":"","clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":1404,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":1,"publishTime":1486734878882,"isCream":0,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":1,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":1486734878880,"metaSearch":null,"rn":0,"barTitle":null,"checkcode":null,"forumUser":{"id":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","isDel":0,"createAt":1484984778320,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"username":"小海螺","password":"yiren2921","level":0,"nickName":"小海螺78","realName":null,"signName":"开心每一天","head":"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/1484985295689.jpg","phone":null,"mobile":null,"wechat":null,"qq":null,"email":"2276635444@qq.com","address":null,"identityType":6,"userType":2,"isPhoneBind":0,"status":0,"accountSource":0,"isStrangerMsg":0,"departmentId":null,"departmentName":null,"sex":1,"provinceId":"110000","cityId":"110108","userLevel":0,"modifyNameCount":1},"lyTopicReply":null,"createAtStr":null,"lyBar":null,"lyTopic":null},{"id":"1296","isDel":0,"createAt":1486730418053,"createBy":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","createName":"小海螺","updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","title":"妄想症常见危害有哪些","content":"<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　很多人都觉得轻微的妄想症对自己的正常生活不会造成影响，所以在发现自己患有这种疾病的倾向时，并不会及时的进行治疗，这也就导致了患者的病情越来越严重，从而诱发了其他的危害，那么妄想症这种疾病都会给患者带来哪些危害呢？我们一起来了解一下妄想症常见危害有哪些吧！</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">1</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、妄想往往有自杀企图，如不早诊断早治疗易酿成大祸。发生妄想症的人，往往有着特殊的性格缺陷，如主观、敏感、多疑、自尊心强、自我中心、好幻想等。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">2</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、妄想患者本人不愿承认自己有病，轻则沉闷于心偏离了正常生活轨道，重则危及社会治安，造成严重的社会事件。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">3</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、妄想是指病人整天多疑多虑，胡乱推理和判断，思维发生障碍，是精神疾病的一个重要症状。患者可伴有幻觉，但无其他明显的精神症状。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体; color: #333333;\">妄想症的患病类型都有哪些呢</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height: 200%; font-family: 'Tahoma','sans-serif'; color: #333333;\">?</span></strong></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">1</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、被迫害妄想型</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　坚信自己受到迫害、欺骗、跟踪、下毒、诽谤或阴谋对待等，病人往往会变得极度谨慎和处处防备，小小的轻侮可能就被病人放大，变成妄想的核心，时常将相关的人纳入自己妄想的世界中。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">2</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、身体妄想型</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　病人坚持自己患病，因而经常四处求医，虽然治疗无效，但仍顽强不息。常见的型态像是病人深信自己由皮肤、口腔、肛门、或阴道等部位发出臭味</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">或体内有寄生虫在钻、爬</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">或昆虫爬附在皮肤上</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">或身体某部位是超出常理范围的变形或丑陋</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">或是身体某部分器官没有功能等等。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">3</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、自大妄想型</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　妄想自己具有至高无上的才能、洞察力、价值、势力、知识、身份等等。在这种念头的驱使下，病人会刻意改变生活方式来迎合妄想，变得奢侈、傲慢、狂热起来。自大妄想可能有宗教内容，例如相信自己有来自神明的特殊讯息。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">4</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">、嫉妒妄想型</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　是一种病态型思想，认为自己的配偶或爱人不忠。病人并不会先采取一些方法</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">(</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">如雇用私家侦探或在家安装摄录机偷拍伴侣</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">)</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">来取得不忠的证据，而是收集一些琐细的佐证</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">(</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">如衣著凌乱、床单有斑点等</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif;\">)</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">，就错误推论并且证实妄想为真。大部分情况下，这些指控完全是虚构的，但有时伴侣曾经有过不忠。个案通常会质疑其配偶或爱人，并且企图阻止想像的不忠事件发生。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%; font-family: 宋体;\">　　现在医学主要讲妄想症分为被迫害妄想症，身体妄想症，自大妄想症以及忌妒妄想症，患者在确定自己患上了这种疾病之后，还要了解自己的患病类型，这样才能够根据自身的情况进行对症治疗，让自己尽快控制病情，早日摆脱这种疾病所带来的伤害。</span></p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 200%;\"><span style=\";line-height: 200%;\">&nbsp;</span></p>\n<p>&nbsp;</p>","barId":"1647","topicTypeId":"1","topicThemeId":"1015","readLevel":0,"files":"","clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":1688,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":1,"publishTime":1486730418055,"isCream":0,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":1,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":1486730418053,"metaSearch":null,"rn":0,"barTitle":null,"checkcode":null,"forumUser":{"id":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","isDel":0,"createAt":1484984778320,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"username":"小海螺","password":"yiren2921","level":0,"nickName":"小海螺78","realName":null,"signName":"开心每一天","head":"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/1484985295689.jpg","phone":null,"mobile":null,"wechat":null,"qq":null,"email":"2276635444@qq.com","address":null,"identityType":6,"userType":2,"isPhoneBind":0,"status":0,"accountSource":0,"isStrangerMsg":0,"departmentId":null,"departmentName":null,"sex":1,"provinceId":"110000","cityId":"110108","userLevel":0,"modifyNameCount":1},"lyTopicReply":null,"createAtStr":null,"lyBar":null,"lyTopic":null},{"id":"3487","isDel":0,"createAt":1486730243027,"createBy":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","createName":"小海螺","updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":"b1a5ca4ddfad11e6a61c00163e04584d","title":"自杀行为的相关误区有哪些","content":"<p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　自杀行为是一种较为可怕的精神疾病了，特别多的朋友会出现自杀行为的症状，从而对于他们的身心方面带来了极严重的伤害，我们应当将自杀行为关注起来，而且要将此病的误区了解透彻，来看看自杀行为的相关误区有哪些呢。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\">　　<strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:宋体;color:#333333\">自杀行为的误区：</span></strong></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　不能和想要自杀的人谈论自杀，因为谈论自杀会诱发其自杀的行为。事实并不是这样。以温和的、镇定、接纳的态度与对方交谈，可以让对方重新思考，可以赢得时间来做危机干预。更重要的是，理解、支持和接纳对想要自杀的人是非常重要的，他们的苦闷会得到宣泄，他们的情绪会得到承托。有可能他们会因为这些温暖而留恋世界，把跨出去的那只脚收回来。把自杀挂在嘴边的人不会自杀。确实有一些人是这样。但也有一些自杀者会在发出预警信号后实施自杀，据研究</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">80%</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">的人自杀死亡者生前曾发出各种预警信号和求救声。当我们没法辨别对方属于哪一种时，最安全的策略是充分重视。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　有过一次自杀念头的人总会想自杀。自杀念头和实施自杀之间有一段长长的路。很多人在遇到一些危机时都曾动过一死了之的念头，但这只是短暂的念头，过后往往会克服危机，重新投入生活。当一个人自杀行为未遂后，危机就结束了。这不完全正确。如果一个人的目的只是用自杀去威胁别人，自杀未遂、达到目的后会停止。但如果一个人一心求死，因偶然原因自杀未遂，连续实施的可能性依然存在。那些状态转变非常快、非常好的自杀未遂者值得关注，因为其背后可能酝酿着更大的危机。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　自杀是冲动性行为。这不完全正确。那些受到强烈情绪支配的自杀，确实有可能是冲动行为，但有些自杀行为是在强大理性支配下的行为，会有充分的准备和周密的安排。只有严重的抑郁症者才会自杀。不完全正确。有些严重的抑郁症者可能连实施自杀的动力和精力都没有了。那些处于抑郁加重、想要摆脱又无力摆脱的人自杀的危险性最大。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　看到了上述中的知识之后，大家了解到了自杀行为的误区是什么了，此病带来了不便，也因此给患者带来了困扰，因此我们需要清楚的认识上面的知识，在自己的思想方面有异常出现的话，那么应当及时处理，从而远离自杀行为的危害。</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span 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style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　不管是从日常生活当中还是从电影电视当中大家应该是有听说过精神分裂症这一疾病的，这一种较为常见的精神病，一般是以青壮年发病人群为主，临床表现各种各样，不过要想很好的诊治，首先是要清楚了解精神分裂症是怎么引起的。那么接下来我们就一起来了解了解这个问题吧。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><strong>　　</strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:&#39;Tahoma&#39;,&#39;sans-serif&#39;;color:#333333\">1</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:宋体;color:#333333\">、神经生物学因素</span></strong></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">①</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">神经生化研究显示，患者存在有多种神经递质功能异常，主要涉及多巴胺、</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">5-</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">羟色胺、谷氨酸。中枢多巴胺水平增高，功能亢进，传统抗精神病药均为中枢神经系统多巴胺受体的阻滞剂。中枢</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">5-</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">羟色胺水平异常，新型抗精神病药除了对多巴胺受体有拮抗作用外，还对</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">5-</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">羟色胺受体有拮抗作用。中枢谷氨酸水平低下，功能不足。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">②</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">神经解剖和神经影像学研究显示，患者颞叶、额叶及边缘系统存在脑组织萎缩，脑室扩大和沟回增宽。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">③</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">母孕期病毒感染，围产期并发症，幼年的不良应激和躯体疾病，与神经系统发育缺陷有关，在精神分裂症发病中有一定影响。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><strong>　　</strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:&#39;Tahoma&#39;,&#39;sans-serif&#39;;color:#333333\">2</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:宋体;color:#333333\">、遗传学因素</span></strong></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　大样本人群遗传流行病学调查显示，患者亲属中的患病率高于一般人群数倍，血缘关系越近，患病率越高。分子遗传学研究提示了与精神分裂症有关的易感基因位。目前普遍认为，精神分裂症可能是多基因遗传，发病是由若干基因的叠加作用所致。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><strong>　　</strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:&#39;Tahoma&#39;,&#39;sans-serif&#39;;color:#333333\">3</span></strong><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:宋体;color:#333333\">、社会心理学因素</span></strong></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　不良的生活事件、经济状况、病前性格等社会心理学因素，在精神分裂症发病中可能起到了诱发和促进作用。精神分裂症的病因尚末完全阐明，目前可以确定的一些影响因素，对疾病没有明确的因果关系。目前较公认的观点是，易感素质和外部不良因素通过内在生物学因素共同作用而导致疾病的发生。</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span 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