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6岁的望望身上，已经贴有好几个标签——“6岁娃喝两瓶啤酒”、“5岁娃会走钢丝”。某直播平台上，他走钢丝的日常训练直播，粉丝数万。小网红的背后推手，是他执著的父亲张禹，一名80后农村青年。
\n张禹自创了一套培养、训练、包装手法，在孩子身上花了不少工夫。但在邻居看来，张禹“是个疯子”。面对争议，张禹说，“我何尝不想让孩子学钢琴、学舞蹈，可我没那条件。”
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事实上，“6岁娃喝两瓶啤酒”已不是望望第一次成为网红了。今年1月，望望在张禹的训练下学会走钢丝，一组望望戴着安全帽，端着竹竿，在河堤钢丝上行走的照片开始在网上流传，也引来了多家媒体的关注报道。
\n记者在采访中看到，望望除了走钢丝外，还在训练打沙包、举杠铃、舞棍、蹲马步、攀岩等项目。望望对这些训练很有兴趣，也很听父亲的话，每天都保持着一定的训练量。
\n![\"80后父亲培养网红儿子](\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497407737405.jpg\" "\\"80后父亲培养网红儿子")
《三国演义》中刘备夸赞关兴张苞“虎父无犬子”，形容英雄基因代代相传。这句话引申在中国很多父亲的身上，却变了味，不管自己是不是虎父，但却要求自己的孩子决不能成为谦辞“犬子”，依然要成为“虎子”。这位训练儿子走钢丝的父亲可谓虎父，可能也代表了好多家长的“一厢情愿”：“培养孩子的自信和自立，锻炼孩子的胆识和专注”。
\n教育专家建议，在培养下一代的过程中，家长应保持“平常心”，充分尊重孩子的选择，切忌将自己的意愿强加给下一代，要给青少年充分的自我发展空间
\n关于此事且看网友如何评论：
\n占卜师米亚：这是儿子还是赚钱的工具？要这父亲有何用？
\n文艺旧情书：难道这个爸爸不知道酒对孩子造成的是永久伤害吗
\n青草撩人心：这能怪他吗，究其根本，是这个时代和社会的毛病
\n我在你的世界平安喜乐：我们普通人家的孩子一样没钱学钢琴学跳舞，每天勒紧裤腰带过日子，但是即便是这样，也不会说让6岁的孩子喝酒，成为赚钱的工具。
\n不知林深：想出名也要选择合理的方式吧 这样教孩子我觉得有失偏颇
\n江湖骗子_：顿时想到：偷小孩子弄残，让其上街乞讨的歹人。
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看新闻学知识： 如何培养孩子正确的人生观和价值观
\n一、家长要率先垂范 , 加强自身修养
\n“ 打铁还要自身硬 ”。很难想象，生价值观扭曲、道德 水平低下的家长能教育出一个拥有正确人生观和高尚情操的孩子。所以，培养孩子形成正确的人生观，家长首先必须 自己有正确的人生观。
\n二、家长要负起责任，努力调教孩子
\n如果家长自己世界观人生观价值观非常正确，但如果不教育孩子，孩子也未必能象父母一样有正确的人生价值观。现实生活中，有很多社会公认的伟大的人、 好人，其子女不但没有继承伟大，反而走向了反面，犯了大错甚至大罪。
\n三、家长要加强学习，改进教育方法
\n家长在对孩子的教育培养过程中 ,常常会遇到特别想教育好孩子,自己也付出了很大努力 , 但是教育效果往往不是太理想。有时还出现孩子对着干的情况。这就要家长明白家长与孩子间毕竟不是一代人，思想思维行动都有客观存在的代沟，必须通过不断学习，采取高效的交流沟通方法，让孩子接受教训时口服心服，接受教育时愿意听、听得进、消得化，切实取得事半功倍的教育效果。
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【榆林市靖边县 中学生遭多名同学掌掴】昨日开始，一则名为“靖边女中学生遭多名同学掌掴”的视频，在网络流传，有网友称，事发地位于陕西省靖边县。新京报记者注意到，拍摄地位于某学校厕所内，视频全长2分24秒。
\n视频画面中，多名身穿校服的女生轮番上前，对另外一名女生实施掌掴，视频中被打女生被掌掴17次，周围另有多人起哄。期间，被打女生多次摘下眼镜，掩面哭泣。
\n今日凌晨，靖边县委宣传部通过官方微博，通报此事，确认事发靖边县第六中学。靖边县委宣传部称， 6月12日，网传靖边六中校园欺凌事件视频，县教育局组织人员立即入校展开调查，调查处理结果将及时全网公开发布。
\n![\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴](\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497368766260.jpg\" "\\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴")
关于此事，且看网友如何评论：
\n过客：处理老师、校长也冤枉。正确处理方式当全校师生的面让被打的女生打回来。
\nyyys:人心是教不好的，七年级就装逼当社会哥了，什么概念？证明小学以来这种谁会化现象就开始渗入了。可以说从95后以后，学校这种人人崇尚混社会，当社会哥已经成为一种无形中的潜规则。甭管重点学校还是普通学校。连这种问题学生的性质都变了。过去小孩打架是打架，人心并不坏。现在小孩打架就是纯种斗殴。稍微年龄大一点的人打架归打架，知道青红皂白。反而是这种小屁孩打起人来下手没轻重。这种人地本就是坏的，教不好。怪不得父母也怪不得学校。贼的子女在有自己的自主意识和判断能力之后不一定就一定也做贼。要怪就怪如今的社会风向和舆论风向。什么考上大学工地等你，诸如此类的屁话更是数不胜数
\n![\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴](\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497368205401.jpg\" "\\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴")
看新闻学知识：校园暴力最新研究进展
\n2014年6月，一项研究发现，被欺凌的儿童可能遇到高于正常的亚临床水平的炎症，可能持续到成年期，而欺凌者比那些既不是受害者也不是欺凌者的儿童的炎症水平要低。此前的研究提示欺凌可能对儿童的心理和社会发展产生负面影响。
\n![\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴](\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497368107391.jpg\" "\\"中学生遭多名同学掌掴")
来自杜克大学医学院等机构的科学家研究了儿童期欺凌是否也能影响儿童的身体健康。研究人员就欺凌的经历采访了来自北卡罗来纳的1420名9-16岁儿童，其中90%是白人、4%是美洲原住民，6%是非洲裔美国人。
\n对这些儿童进行C反应蛋白（CRP）的血液测试表明，被欺凌的儿童的C反应蛋白（CRP）水平随着他们被欺凌的次数而增加，C反应蛋白（CRP）是身体的低级系统炎症的一种标记物，常常与心血管疾病和代谢症状有联系。
\n在欺凌停止后的19到21岁的第二组血液测试表明，在童年被欺凌的人的C反应蛋白（CRP）的水平保持在曾经进行欺凌的人的两倍，而欺凌者的C反应蛋白（CRP）水平低于从未被欺凌者或者受害者。
\n研究人员说，这些结果提示一名儿童在欺凌中的角色可能充当了风险因素或成年期低水平炎症的保护性因素，而这可能对长期健康有负面的影响。
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想得到怎样的帮助：
请问如何治疗。能痊愈吗？能戒断吗？
男,19岁。2015年上高三时与家人沟通减少，逆反，平素性格内向，高考前进了网吧，家人劝说无效，上大学后与同学交往少，玩手机游戏并去网吧打英雄联盟游戏（基本只打一种），学习成绩下降，已留级。饮食睡眠可，看书如高数看不进去，现不能主动与人交往，沉迷网络游戏。
还有什么好的建议呀，非常着急
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