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style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　我们要避免长期的精神过度紧张或是压抑，否则很有可能会给我们的精神带来一定的损害的，从而就会导致妄想症的发生，妄想症的发生可以说是给患者朋友们造成了非常可怕的精神心理伤害，如果不能够及时的去治疗的话，是会给患者朋友们带来了一生的遗憾的，为此大家在面对妄想症的时候一定要及时治疗，那么有关于妄想症这个疾病的预防是什么样的呢？</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　妄想症的发病率大约是每</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">1</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">万人</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">3</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">宗，但有很多个案仍未被诊断出来，所以实际数字应不止如此。女性和男性的患病机会似乎均等，而发病年龄范围十分广。虽然大多数病人都是未婚人士，但有部分在发病前已经结婚。发病前的性格特症多为孤僻、不合群。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><strong><span style=\";line-height:200%;font-family:宋体;color:#333333\">　　妄想症预防</span></strong></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　妄想症的发病率大约是每</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">1</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">万人</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">3</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">宗，但有很多个案仍未被诊断出来，所以实际数字应不止如此，女性和男性的患病机会似乎均等，而发病年龄范围十分广，虽然大多数病人都是未婚人士，但有部分在发病前已经结婚，发病前的性格特症多为孤僻，不合群。要避免患病，人们要注重培养健全的人格，培养多种有益爱好，保持思维开阔。如果长时间心情不舒畅，要学会自我控制，上网或到图书馆查阅相关的精神卫生知识，对自己的症状做简单的判断，然后积极地自我调节：比如找朋友和家人谈天交流，或者参加一些体育运动，或者是去观光旅游。另外找心理医生做心理咨询是最有效的解决方法，心理医生会针对每个人的情况做出各种解决方案，逐步引导人们重回快乐生活。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">①</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">保持乐观愉快的情绪。长期出现精神紧张、焦虑、烦燥、悲观等情绪，会使大脑皮质兴奋和抑制过程的平衡失调，所以需要保持愉快的心情。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">②</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">生活节制，注意休息、劳逸结合，生活有序，保持乐观、积极、向上的生活态度对预防疾病有很大的帮助。做到茶饭有规律，生存起居有常、不过度劳累、心境开朗，养成良好的生活习惯。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\">　　<span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">③</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">合理膳食可多摄入一些高纤维素以及新鲜的蔬菜和水果，营养均衡，包括蛋白质、糖、脂肪、维生素、微量元素和膳食纤维等必需的营养素，荤素搭配，食物品种多元化，充分发挥食物间营养物质的互补作用，对预防此病也很有帮助。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　当一个人沉浸在妄想的世界里，就会不愿意与身边的人交流，有时会自言自语，有时会与幻想中的人讲话，会非常的恐怖。因此，如果身边的朋友有这种症状的，一定要及时将其从那种状态里拉出来，不要让妄想症形成。</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span 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宋体\">如今做整形美容手术的女性越来越多，有专家指出，目前有不少女性患上了</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">幻丑症</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">，成了</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">美容手术迷</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\"> </span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　爱美之心人皆有之，但其中却有不少令人难以理解的怪事。有些患者认为自己长相丑陋，不停地奔波于各种美容医院做各种美容整形手术，以求有个理想的容貌，但总是不能达到自我满意的程度，于是又开始进行新一轮的手术；还有许多</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">30 </span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">岁以上的中年妇女纷纷出入于各种美容医院，不惜重金，从眉到胸进行全方位重新</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">包装</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">；不少年轻女性甚至也以种种理由在本已出色的面孔上冒着风险割来割去。她们简直都成了整形美容手术迷。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\"> </span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　专家认为，造成以上现象的真正原因在于：这些患者存在一定程度的心理问题。那类认为自己长相丑陋、不断做美容的患者，是因为其患有一种被称之为</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">幻想丑</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">的心理疾病，这不是整容手术所能解决的问题，而应该求助于心理医生从而治本。不少中年妇女和年轻女性的美容行为则是出于一种挽救家庭、解决婚姻危机的幼稚想法。其实家庭婚姻危机的真正原因还在于深层的社会因素，诸如感情不和道德沦落，这得求助于法治和道德教育。</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\"> </span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　专家建议，需做整形美容手术的患者，要严格谨慎选择美容医院。要去那些有技术、经验和设备保障的正规美容医院，千万不要受失实广告宣传影响或贪图便宜而误入不合格的</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">黑</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">美容店；同时还要有手术风险意识和一定的心理承受能力，不要指望挨一刀就会变成美女，任何手术都有风险，患者要三思而后行。</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span style=\";line-height: 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#fcfcfc;\">男,52岁。父亲早年出车祸，20年前就开始在家修养，一直没有上班，参加过几次工作但都因为喝酒搞出很多事，有始无终。期间经常喝酒，但近5年喝的很厉害，每天至少十瓶啤酒或八两白酒，早起就喝酒，喝到晚上睡觉，第二天再喝，出现过三次心率不齐，赶到医院急诊又好了，近三年肠胃炎症经常发生，伴有感冒症状。自己想戒酒无数次，但最久坚持一周，手抖冒汗失眠，又再次喝酒。现在多疑，健忘，幻听，脾气暴躁，莫名其妙骂母亲，骂的很恶毒但对我态度比较好，周围朋友亲戚也在这20年内都得罪完了，近一年脾气更加暴躁，但只是骂人没有摔东西打人，多疑，经常怀疑门有没有锁，天然气有没有关，有点被害妄想症但不经常表现。</span><span style=\"color: #333333; font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', Helvetica, 'microsoft yahei', simsun, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 32px; background-color: #fcfcfc;\">这种情况严重吗？需要住院治疗吗？酒精依赖症能治好吗，他不喝酒的时候和正常人一样，而且心地很善良的。</span></p>","barId":"1647","topicTypeId":null,"topicThemeId":"1019","readLevel":0,"files":"","clickNoLikeCount":0,"clickLikeCount":0,"clickCount":0,"score":0,"partCount":0,"replayCount":0,"publishStatus":0,"publishTime":0,"isCream":null,"canReply":0,"shareUrl":null,"foodCouponVal":0,"emailNotice":0,"permission":0,"zlyShare":0,"status":0,"sort":0,"highlight":0,"highlightEffectTime":0,"digest":0,"digestEffectTime":0,"top":0,"topEffectTime":0,"closed":0,"stamp":0,"icon":0,"bgcolor":null,"fontcolor":null,"favtimes":0,"isAdopt":0,"adoptId":null,"sortDate":0,"metaSearch":null,"rn":2},{"id":"3236","isDel":0,"createAt":0,"createBy":null,"createName":null,"updateAt":0,"updateBy":null,"updateName":null,"userId":null,"title":"自杀行为的症状会有哪些呢","content":"<p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　自杀是非常可怕的，较多的朋友会遇到此病，从而给身心健康带来了危害，让患者朋友的生活受到了影响，因此我们要将自杀行为了解透彻，特别是此病的症状表现需要关注起来，到底自杀行为疾病的症状表现会是什么呢。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　自杀是个体的自伤行为，每个人的自杀动机、方式、诱因等差异较大。自杀行为的发生与人所处地区、年龄、性别、文化程度、职业、婚姻状况以及季节等差异有相关性。大学生作为自杀的高危人群，其自杀行为表现出明显的个性特征。从自杀方式来看，自杀方式取决于方式选择的致死性、易得性和可接受性。近年案例显示，大学生自杀以跳楼、服毒</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">(</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">或服药</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">)</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">方式为主。一方面是大学生生活的环境高楼林立，高空坠落自杀是容易的选择，另一方面现在农药、安眠药等致死药物的管理不到位，个人可以很方便地购买或取得。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　从自杀的诱因来看，流行病学及研究资料表明，自杀的原因复杂。中国人的自杀诱因以家庭关系、婚恋纠纷、人际不和以及精神障碍为主。在考察大学生心理危机的基础上，可以看出，大学生的自杀诱因突出表现在学业压力、情感纠葛、人际危机、就业压力、悲观厌世等方面，其中男生因学业压力、女生因恋爱问题自杀比例偏高。在这里，负性生活事件往往成为引爆自杀的导火索，尤其是连续的负性生活事件的累加，会骤然增加大学生的心理压力，当这种压力超过一定的阀值，必然带来严重的后果。当大学生出现了</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">“</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">行为方式忽然而显着的改变、语言表达、人际关系变化、情绪变化与心境变化、反复在危险区逗留、身体与神态的变化等</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">”</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">异常时，应予以高度关注。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　从自杀的动力来看，境遇、意动、情感、认知、人际关系以及连续性特征为自杀的六个维度。境遇表现在不能忍受的心理痛苦，心理需求遇到挫折</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">意动表现为自杀为了寻求解决问题的办法，中断意识</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">情感表现在绝望无助，对自杀内在的态度是矛盾的</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">认知表现在对自杀的认知态度是扭曲的</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">人际关系表现在想要与人交流，寻找出路</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: Tahoma, sans-serif\">;</span><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">连续性特征表现在终生的应付方式。从六个维度来看，个体的自杀是可以感知的。正因为此，给自杀危机干预提供了一个可资利用的空间。大学生的自杀行为的内在动力同样体现出上述这些特征。</span></p><p style=\"line-height: 200%\"><span style=\"line-height: 200%;font-family: 宋体\">　　从自杀的动机来看，大学生自杀具有浪漫主义的特征，一般自杀的动机有冲动型、抑郁型、失望型和颓废型。实际上，大学生处于心理发展的关键阶段，思想波动大，情绪起伏，有的感性冲动，有的孤僻郁闷，有的悲观失望，有的精神颓废，各种心理冲突往往交织在一起，不仅仅是单一的动机表现类型，而是表现出综合的类型。</span></p><p style=\"line-height:200%\"><span 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normal;\">河南郑州一武馆，一名教练将4岁孩子夹着脖子拖走，放到凳子上后一巴掌将他扇下凳子，孩子脸被打红肿。馆长上前劝阻，也被攻击。武馆负责人称：打人教练刚来两三天，因家庭矛盾心情不好，已被处12日拘留。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">1.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">关注孩子的情绪，并及时给予安抚与保护</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">孩子的世界其实很单纯，但可能会被那个孩子吓了一跳，更可能被对方家长突然来袭的粗暴式介入所吓到。这时，安抚并保护自己的孩子不受到言语的攻击，是最重要的。因为孩子之间这点琐事对他们或许根本不重要，如果没有家长的介入，也许他们下一秒便忘得一干二净了。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497193172320.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"301\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">2.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">与对方家长沟通，尝试让孩子自己解决问题。</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">可以尝试和对方家长协商，双方家长保持平静，让孩子之间好好沟通，看看孩子能不能自己解决矛盾。如果不能，家长再给出一点建议，以和为贵，不给孩子造成一种恐怖的、严肃的气氛。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497192423951.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">3.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">事后问问孩子的感受</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">不管怎样，晚上吃饭时，或睡前，可以再问问孩子，白天所发生的事，他是怎么理解的，如果孩子三言两语略过，说明他可能根本不在意这件事，也就是说，这件事对他没有造成任何心理影响。但如果孩子吞吞吐吐，眼里藏着泪花，那真的需要和孩子好好聊一下，解开他的心结。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;\"><img title=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" src=\"http://01luntan.com/ly_img/uimgs/1497193163750.jpg\" alt=\"武馆教练掌掴4岁娃 当孩子被欺负时，我们自己该怎么办？\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" /></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">4.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">遇到熊家长鼻祖，走为上策</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">如果你的微笑和努力沟通根本无法让对方家长停止不文明的谩骂行为，那你一定是遇上熊家长鼻祖了。这时，走为上策，不要再在对方身上浪费一分钟时间。如果遇到一些情绪失控甚至有过份行为的家长，可报警。为了下一代，我们更应该从自我做起，拒绝暴力，学会沟通，注重文明。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">5.&nbsp;</strong><strong class=\"bold\">孩子回打了，不要马上指责他，讲道理</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">当孩子在被打之后，如果他狠狠地回打了对方的孩子。有的家长可能碍于面子，马上严肃地指责自己的孩子：「你这孩子，怎么可以打人。」其实这对于孩子的内心来说，会觉得很委屈，很受伤。因为在他小小的世界里，明明是别人先打了我，为什么我的妈妈不帮我，反而还要骂我。孩子回打后，家长不必过于紧张，其实这恰恰是一个&ldquo;言传身教&rdquo;的好机会。在孩子回打之后，作为双方家长，首先应互相道歉，然后表示谅解与宽容。孩子通过观察家长的行为就可以明白：拳头不是解决矛盾的唯一方式。这样，在以后遇到同样的情景时，孩子也会以家长的行为为榜样，效仿大人&ldquo;君子动口不动手&rdquo;的方式来解决矛盾。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\"><strong class=\"bold\">03</strong><strong class=\"bold\">、大人要教会孩子自我保护</strong></p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">一位家长对孩子被打的态度则是非常坚决：打回去，被欺负要有反击。因为他认为：\"大人对孩子最好的保护，就是教会孩子自我保护\"。</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">&nbsp;</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">关于此事，看网友如何评论：</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">扎个马尾装清：心情不好就可以打孩子了？那我心情不好可以打你老婆吗？</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">北海鱼虾：心情不好不会跳楼？打孩子算个什么事</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">告别吃土o3o：将情绪发泄在孩子身上？脑子锈逗了？应该开除</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">月-野-菟：拘留12日，惩罚太轻，这属于虐待！小孩子心理阴影可能伴随着一辈子</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, 'Microsoft YaHei'; line-height: 26.4px; white-space: normal;\">哩个啷_9412：就拘留12天？哎呦我去，不是我说脏话，让他去死吧</p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 16px; padding: 0px; min-height: 26px; 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