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当儿女成人，老爸老妈们又归入“二人世界”，尽管逢年过节儿女常回家看看是巨大的安慰和喜悦，但更多的日子里，是老两口相扶相依，因此老了更需要伴儿，子女关注老年人性生活也是关爱老人一部分。
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夫妻生活有三方面的内容：1、生儿育女，2、寻求性乐趣，3、相伴过日子。生儿育女的事属于年轻的夫妻，其实也并非必需。随着年龄的增长，寻求性乐趣的方式方法可以改变，但对性乐趣的要求和享受不应放弃。老年人的性交能力无疑是下降的，但这不等于性生活的终结。性交不是性生活的全部和唯一，关心、体贴、言语、接触、爱抚都会使彼此享受到伴儿的乐趣。如彼此相安，尽可随其自然。刻意去追求什么，轻信和滥用“催情”药具有时是危险的。俗话说，少来夫妻老来伴，相伴过日子的相伴更是夫妻一生一世的保留节目，戏越接近尾声就越应该精彩。要珍惜缘份，好好做伴，美满的婚姻给人一生幸福，和谐的夫妻生活给人带来健康长寿。有些老人七、八十岁还在闹分居、闹离婚，实在是令人啼笑皆非。这个“新潮”还是不赶为好，其实都没有什么原则的事，宽容些，糊涂些吧。
\n随着年龄的增长，丧偶老人也越来越多，而随着世俗观念逐渐被摒弃，对老年人再婚大多数人都是赞同的。老人丧偶后的孤独可导致心理变态及发生其他多种疾病，而再婚不但有益丧偶老人的身心健康，同时也减轻了子女和社会的负担。在这方面，老年女性的主动性比男性似乎差一些，应鼓励她们更勇敢地去选择自己的又一人生伴侣，更如愿地去安排自己的晚年生活。
\n总结：
\n老年人也需要“性”，非性交性行为占据主要地位，但每对夫妻的性生活绝无一定之规。
\n珍爱老伴，共建和谐，携手共赴健康长寿之路。
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伴随老龄化社会的趋势，老年痴呆症的发生率逐渐增高。这绝不是单单针对老人自己的事，而是一个应该引起每个家庭和全社会关注的问题，老人脑萎缩老年痴呆的正确认识与对待就显得尤为重要。
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| \n 类型 \n | \n\n 病因 \n | \n\n 表现 \n | \n\n 治疗 \n | \n
| \n 脑血管性痴呆 \n | \n\n 由脑动脉硬化引起的脑出血、脑梗塞所致，成为中风后遗症。 \n | \n\n 1) 记忆障碍； \n2) 不识数，不会写字； \n3) 丧失判断力，不知道自己所处的位置和时间； \n4) 郁闷不乐，无兴趣，不出屋； \n5) 感情波动剧烈，突然大怒、哭闹； \n6) 妄想； \n7) 反复说同样的事； \n8) 举止怪诞，不加修饰…… \n | \n\n 使用改善脑血管及改善脑细胞功能的药物有改善可能。 \n | \n
| \n 阿尔茨默痴呆 \n | \n\n 脑萎缩 \n | \n\n 尚无有确切疗效的药物。绝经后早期补充雌激素有一定的预防作用。 \n | \n
老年痴呆症现无根治的方法，因此早期发现、早期治疗以缓解痴呆症状，延缓痴呆进展是首要的。为此，希望家人、亲戚、朋友都要细心观察老年人的表现，如存在焦虑不安、失眠、乏力、幻觉等早期症状，应尽快到医院检查治疗，有时痴呆症可以通过抗焦虑、抗抑郁等神经调节药物有所环节。
\n对老年痴呆症的老人要象看护小孩一样细心而耐心，此时的老人是名符其实的“老小孩儿”。
\n看护注意事项：
\n关心她的“心事”，及时心理疏导。
\n随声附和，投其所好。
\n衣食住行细心关怀。
\n创造温馨的家庭氛围。
\n严密监护，避免意外、伤害发生。
\n防备外出迷路，随身安放写有姓名、住址、联系人电话的联系签，最好有人陪同外出。
\n及时就医，必要时送入专门的养护机构。
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一位老人在西安三桥一家银行查丈夫银行卡上的余额，因为不懂操作流程，老人求助旁边一个刚取完钱的小伙子，没想到小伙子李某让老人输完密码后，看到卡上有几万余额，顿时萌生了贪念，偷偷转走了18000元到自己的卡上。后来，老人发现后报警，民警抓住了男子李某，抓获时，李某已把钱用于还债。西安市未央区人民法院审理后，判处李某犯盗窃罪，判处他有期徒刑十个月，并处罚金3000元。
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关于此事，且看网友如何评论：
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\nqwe8700：赚大发了，债还了，还可以免费十个月包吃住
\n心灵治愈帖：家里有老人看不懂存折、不会取款的，子女还是抽点时间教教吧[doge][doge][doge]关于钱的事老人去请教别人，很危险的，贪婪是人之本性
\n芥子化须弥：罚金罚给谁？，老人被转走的钱呢？
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看新闻学知识：老年防范诈骗小知识
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各类层出不穷的骗术不但使受害人财物损失很大，还破坏了人与人之间的信任，造成极其恶劣的社会影响，社会和家人应当对老年人这个群体给予更多关注和保护。从社会层面讲，相关部门和社区要加大宣传力度，给老年人上防骗课，普及防骗知识；公安机关可以将一些典型案例和骗子的伎俩讲给居民们特别是老年人听，及时向辖区居民发布警情通报，提醒居民提防诈骗，妥善保管好财物。另外，作为儿女，平时应多与家中老人沟通交流，给老人讲一些防骗知识，让老人不要轻信他人，遇事多和子女商量，征求子女意见。不在父母身边的儿女，要常回家看看，让老人感受到子女的关怀和温暖，防止“感情骗局”发生。作为老年人自身，也要多和社会接触，多读书看报,开阔视野,科学养生不迷信，提高防骗能力。
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不少老年妇女存在不同程度的尿失禁或遗尿问题。有的是咳嗽、打喷嚏、大笑或腹部用力时就尿裤子了；有的是一有尿如不立刻上厕所就会尿裤；那么女性尿失禁的原因是什么？又有什么治疗方法？
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老年妇女尿失禁主要是因为雌激素的减少，使支撑膀胱、尿道的骨盆底肌肉松弛及尿道括约肌松弛而引起的。尿道括约肌是束着尿道口的一道环形肌肉圈，象女孩子扎辫子的皮筋儿一样，老化了，没有弹力了，辫子就扎不住了，尿道口封闭不全，一有压力尿就漏出来了。那些生过孩子的妇女，特别是经历过难产，产次多的，因为当时曾有过骨盆底及会阴的软组织损伤，老来更容易发生尿失禁或症状更严重。
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骨盆底、会阴部的损伤和肌肉松弛还可以诱发子宫脱垂和阴道壁膨出，老人会误认为自己阴部长了肿瘤而来医院，有的同时有排尿或大便困难，坐者、站着、走着都有障碍，为此也有人用“丁”字带跨过会阴部，把阴道口”的肿物“兜起来。有时脱出的“肿物”被磨破了，出血了，则更令人心烦、恐惧。
\n有些尿失禁，在医生的指导下通过补充适量的雌激素和盆底肌肉锻炼，就可得到明显缓解；有些情况则必须通过手术的方式，悬吊、加固和/或修补尿道及其支撑组织，方可摆脱尿垫的羞涩。
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预防与治疗方法：
\n尿失禁的预防应从产后就开始，坚持不懈的盆底肌肉锻炼将大大减少老来“尿垫”的烦恼。
\n张力性尿失禁的现代保守治疗包括电刺激和生物反馈疗法等。
\n已有多种方法可将人工材料的悬吊带置入尿道后壁治疗尿失禁，手术微创且效果肯定，但价格较贵，偶尔会出现“排异”或矫枉过正（短期内尿潴留）的副反应。
\n子宫脱垂合并阴道壁膨出的老年女性，通常建议行阴式子宫切除和阴道壁修补术。
\n“子宫托”已很少使用，现代手术材料和技术可实现子宫的盆、腹腔内悬吊。
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